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Nearly 15 years in the making, we’re finally getting married at our dream venue—Villa del Balbianello on Lake Como—and we couldn’t be more excited to celebrate with you!
Thank you for joining us for our wedding weekend of dolce vita bliss in one of the most romantic places in the world. We truly can’t wait to sip spritzes and espresso martinis, indulge in Italian wine and food, and share endless laughter and dancing beneath the Italian sunset.
We’re deeply grateful for each of you and the joy you bring into our lives, and we know this weekend will be filled with memories we’ll cherish forever. This site has all the details to help you make the most of the celebration. If you have any questions, don’t hesitate to reach out. Salute!
"When you write the story of two happy lovers, let it be set on the shores of Lake Como." - Franz Liszt
That’s Amore
Though Deirdre and Alex both attended the University of San Diego, their paths truly crossed during a semester abroad in Madrid. A spark ignited during a two-week immersion course, and their first date—at Retiro Park—sealed the deal. Since then, they’ve shared countless adventures around the world, earned their MBAs (Alex at UT McCombs, Deirdre at Northwestern Kellogg), and got engaged on a snowy New Year’s Eve in Montana during a horse-drawn carriage ride. Now, they’re thrilled to say “I do” surrounded by their favorite people on the shores of Lake Como!
AUGUST 2, 2025
Before
I Do
4:45PM
BOAT RIDE & WELCOME DRINKS
Accessible only by boat, transportation will be provided from Tremezzo and Bellagio to our wedding venue. *Please note that our wedding and related events are adults-only.
the wedding
6PM
CEREMONY
VILLA DEL BALBIANELLO
LOGGIA DURINI
Black Tie
Men: tuxedos.
Women: elegant floor-length dresses.
after
i do
6:30PM - MIDNIGHT
COCKTAIL HOUR
UNDER THE CANFORA TREE
RECEPTION
LOGGIA SEGRE & TERRACE
DINNER & DANCING
CHEERS TO MAKING IT OFFICIAL IN ONLY
let's kick off the weekend
LA DOLCE VITA SUNSET CRUISE
7-10pm
THURSDAY, JULY 31
Buffet & Cocktails
Boat pickup provided from
Tremezzo & Bellagio Docks
Join us for our kickoff event as we cruise the lake at golden hour with sunset views and a yacht rock playlist. We’ll be groovin’ as the sun sets over Lake Como (8:52 PM)
*All-White Attire* Feel free to keep it relaxed or dress it up—your choice! While it’s a white party, don’t hesitate to mix in light neutrals like khaki.
welcome celebration
6-9PM
FRIDAY, AUGUST 1
T Garden | Grand Hotel Tremezzo
Dinner & Drinks
Join us the night before the wedding for our welcome party, where we’ll toast the weekend with an alfresco lakeside celebration.
*Garden Cocktail Attire* Picture an Italian summer dinner party: florals, colors, and effortlessly chic styles. Gentlemen, no jackets or ties needed! Ladies, grass-friendly heels encouraged.
Travel
We’re so excited to celebrate with you in Lake Como!! To secure the best availability and rates, we recommend booking your travel and accommodations soon after confirming your attendance. Below, you'll find detailed recommendations to simplify your travel planning. Please don’t hesitate to reach out with any questions or if you’d like additional advice—we’re here to help!
FLIGHT
For guests traveling from the U.S., we recommend flying directly into Milan Malpensa Airport (MXP). Malpensa offers numerous international flights and is conveniently located about 45 minutes by car from our recommended hotels and wedding venue.
If you're traveling through other parts of Europe, alternative nearby airports include Milan Linate (LIN), Bergamo (BGY), or even Lugano (LUG) in Switzerland.
CAR & TAXI
Taxi: Taxis are readily available directly outside Malpensa Airport arrivals for easy transport to Lake Como (45 minutes).
Private Car/Van: For added comfort, we recommend arranging a private transfer in advance through your hotel or with one of the recommended providers listed below.
Car Rental: Renting a car is an option, though navigating Lake Como’s narrow roads and limited parking can be tricky. If renting, opt for a smaller vehicle and confirm parking availability at your accommodations beforehand.
TRAIN
If you prefer taking the train from Malpensa Airport, you can reserve a Trenord ticket online in advance or purchase one at the station upon arrival.
Take the Malpensa Express train directly from the airport to Milan Centrale (Milan’s main station). From there, take a train to Como San Giovanni Station, which takes around 30–40 minutes. From Como San Giovanni, it's a short ferry or taxi to Tremezzo or Bellagio.
Traveling through Switzerland? From Lugano Station, you can also take a 30-minute train ride to Como San Giovanni, then continue by ferry or taxi to Tremezzo or Bellagio.
WHERE TO STAY
We recommend booking accommodations in either Tremezzo or Bellagio, both of which offer beautiful options for your stay. Below, we’ve highlighted three hotels in each area. The hotels within each town are just a short walk apart, so guests staying in the same town will be only minutes from one another.
We’ll be staying in Tremezzo, which is closer to all wedding-related events, but transportation will be provided from both towns. Feel free to choose the location that works best for you! Please don’t hesitate to reach out if you’d like additional hotel recommendations or advice on Airbnb/VRBO options!
La Darsena
Via Regina, 3, 22016
Tremezzo CO, Italy
info@ladarsena.it
13 Rooms / Family-Run Boutique Hotel
Please click link below to book!
Grand Hotel Tremezzo
Via Regina, 8
22016 Tremezzina
reservations@grandhoteltremezzo.com
*Welcome Party Location*
Please email and reference "Grecco-Konopatzke Wedding" to book!
Hotel Bazzoni
Via Regina, 26, 22019
Tremezzo CO, Italy
booking@hotelbazzonitremezzo.com
Please email and reference "Grecco-Konopatzke Wedding" to book!
Hotel du Lac
P.za Giuseppe Mazzini
32, 22021 Bellagio CO, Italy
info@bellagiohoteldulac.com
Please email and reference "Grecco-Konopatzke Wedding" to book!
Grand Hotel Villa Serbelloni
Via Teresio Olivelli, 1,
22021 Bellagio CO, Italy
info@villaserbelloni.com
Please click link below to book!
Email and reference "Grecco-Konopatzke Wedding" with any questions.
Hotel Bellagio
Salita Grandi, 6, 22021
Bellagio CO, Italy
info@hotelbellagio.it
Please email and reference "Grecco-Konopatzke Wedding" to book!
ALL THE ANSWERS
When is the RSVP Deadline?
Please rsvp as soon as possible :) Don’t hesitate to reach out with any questions—we’re happy to help!
WHAT IF I CAN'T MAKE IT?
Please still RSVP to let us know, but we totally understand! It's a big ask!
May I bring a Plus 1?
Please reach out to us directly if you have a question about your guest!
ARE CHILDREN ALLOWED TO ATTEND THE WEDDING WEEKEND?
We wish! Due to limited space, we kindly ask that our wedding and related events remain adults-only. If you have any questions, feel free to reach out.
Is transportation included?
Yes! Transportation will be arranged to and from all wedding-related events for guests staying in Tremezzo and Bellagio. Final details will be shared with confirmed guests closer to the date.
What airport should I fly into?
We recommend flying into Milan Malpensa (MXP), the closest major airport to Lake Como. Full travel tips can be found on the Travel page!
WHAT ARE THE FOOD OPTIONS? WHAT IF I HAVE DIETARY RESTRICTIONS?
When you RSVP, you’ll have the option to choose between filet mignon, local seabass, or a vegetarian dish. Let us know any dietary restrictions (vegan, gluten-free, allergies, etc.), and we’ll make sure you’re taken care of!
WILL THE WEDDING BE OUTDOORS?
The ceremony, cocktail hour, and dinner will all take place outdoors. Dancing will move indoors later in the evening. Ladies: please note there’s a short uphill walk from the boat to the villa—block heels or wedges are recommended unless you’re a pro!
MAY I TAKE PHOTOS DURING THE CEREMONY?
We kindly ask that phones and cameras be put away during the ceremony. We’ll have a photographer and videographer capturing everything, so please join us for an unplugged ceremony.
WHAT SHOULD I WEAR?
*All-White Attire*
Feel free to keep it relaxed or dress it up—your choice! While it’s a white party, don’t hesitate to mix in light neutrals like khaki.
*Garden Cocktail Attire*
Picture an Italian summer dinner party: florals, colors, and effortlessly chic styles. Gentlemen, no jackets or ties needed! Ladies, grass-friendly heels encouraged.
*Black Tie*
Men: tuxedos.
Women: elegant floor-length dresses.